Mom has been asleep for the most part of the last 24 hours. She doesn't even wake up for medicine now, but we continue to administer it as the hospice nurse instructed. Our dear nurse, Leslie, told us earlier today that mom is very near to what they term "actively dying." Her breathing patterns have changed and her heart rate is very high. Leslie can tell what a fighter mom is and cannot predict exactly when mom will finish her battle here on earth, but she does think it will be soon.
We appreciate so much Leslie's care of mom and on a personal note, I am so grateful that she has been able to feel mom's spirit and spunk. In Leslie's line of work she sees many people move on from this life and she has shared that she knows there are angels among us. Both for mom and for the family and friends. I hope that as all of you have followed this journey that you have felt the comfort that we have. Pray for a peaceful release.
Val
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A joyful reunion between your mom and your dad is close at hand. We wish you and your family comfort and peace of mind. Your mother is so loved.
ReplyDeleteBe so thankful for your knowledge of Eternal Life. Wishing you peace and your mom comfort.
ReplyDeleteVal, it's Carrie Newcombe here. I have been following this touching journey and have meant (many times) to get a card in the mail to you. Please know that you are all being thought of and prayed for, even here in WA.
ReplyDeleteWhat I am feeling: tears, love, family, and heaven. Your mom is one of the valiant ones; she has raised an amazing family. Love to you now and into forever.
ReplyDeleteNancy (and Dean)
May God carry her gently across the threshold, and may all of you children find strength, and comfort knowing she is at peace. She is so loved, and will be greatly missed.
ReplyDeleteI love to think of Jill and the great example she has been for me and my family. I know these are hard times, but we are blessed with the knowledge of the Gospel and that it is but a small separation until we all meet again. Our prayers are with you as they have been for peace and comfort. Love, Serranos
ReplyDeleteMy heart breaks at the thought of losing such an amazing, sweet lady. I miss her already and I, too, have meant to send cards. But, in knowing of our Father's plan and of his love, we know that he knows what is best. I pray for our Father's love and peace to be with Jill, Brian and all of you. You all are always in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteMelody
Hi, Valerie. After a number of years away, I returned to the Variety Show along with the never-ending teachers' dance. I did it completely for your mom since it is just what she would have expected me to do. Jill always knew how to have fun and how to please the kids. I'll miss her, but she knows very well that the show goes on.
ReplyDeleteHer new venue will be among the stars. Let's hope Jeff can keep up with her.
---Rich Fishbaugh
I'm so sorry Val, and Becky, Jenn, and Joel. Love you guys! Wishes for peace and comfort for you guys after the tears. I know it will be hard at times thinking of special things she misses in your kids lives or times when you wish you could call or hug her. I hope you know the rest of the family is here for you and she will be waiting, and I think there with you whenever you need her.
ReplyDeleteAlisha, Chris, Brooklyn, and Joren
Still thinking and praying for you and your family...
ReplyDeleteLove,
Helen
Dear Val,
ReplyDeleteThis has been an "incredible journey", and I thank you and your siblings for sharing it with those of us who know and love your Mom. I went through this with hospice, with my own Mom a few years ago, and so know what you and your siblings are experiencing. I know Heavenly Father is holding not only your Mom, but each of you in his arms and guiding you through each step of the way. Thankyou to each of you for sharing a very personal experience with so many of us. My love to each of you.
Sue
I'm trying to not be emotional, but it's impossible. I love Aunt Jill so much! I pray that she does go peacefully. I pray that you and Becky, Jenny and Joel all know how much I love you. I will always be here for you. I think the world of all of you. xoxoxoxoxoxo
ReplyDeleteEveryone at the school is thinking of Jill. The students have been making butterflyies that line the halls in her honor. We love you Jill!
ReplyDeleteTo our sweet Jill.... what a powerful inspiration you are to all of us! I have truly admired your consistent positive attitude toward life and your dedication to what you love. I am definitely a better person for knowing you and having been able to associate with you for the past 8+ years. What a legacy you will leave to not only your family, but to education as a whole. I love you!
ReplyDeleteJennifer LeBaron
I will always find the brightest star and know that is Jill. Her blue eyes will add color to the sky and her contagious laughter will add song to the wind
ReplyDeleteYou all have done her proud. You have proven the great depth to the roots she has given to you and now you must soar on those wings she worked so hard to develop in you.
Know you are loved and supported by many. We are all so very lucky to have been part of Jill's life
I love you. Mary Beth Barloga
I lost my Mom this past year, and when I see roses I always think of her. Now when I see butterflies, I will always think of Jill. If you can come to Coral Canyon, I think you all would love to see the "Butterfly Garden" the students are making as a tribute for her in our lobby and down the halls. May God bless!
ReplyDeleteKarlene
To Jill and her family:
ReplyDeleteI feel great sorrow at losing Jill and great joy at knowing she is going home to her Father. Jill has touched many lives; I can see that as I read all the notes. She has also touched mine. Who she is will live on through us and our efforts. I am better for having known her and I will try to live up to what she saw in me.
Love to all of you.
Liz Goddard